Monday, September 17, 2012

Homophobia

Okay, I have homophobia. The term itself is already clear enough for you to understand what it is, I guess. But if you're not sure, then here it is... the definition of Homophobia that I got from wikipedia, lol.  Homophobia is a range of negative attitudes and feelings toward homosexuality or people who are identified or perceived as being lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender. It is also said in the website that homophobia is observable in critical and hostile behavior such as DISCRIMINATION and VIOLENCE on the basis of sexual orientations that are non-heterosexual.

Some people might have been told or might have noticed that I do discriminate some gays or lesbians. Very often, I tell people that I can't really stand homosexual people, and that I may commit crime by using violence with them. (LOL sounds cruel, yeah? but that's just the way I am!!) Anyways, I'm not saying I hate all homosexual people. I think there are some gays or lesbians that I actually respect... say, Ellen DeGeneres? Neil Patrick Harris?   Frank Ocean? Hehe... I love how they can bravely come out of the closet, be who they really are, and make such a great impact in whatever they're doing, lol. So, clearly, people like them deserve to be respected. But some gays and lesbians in Cambodia? I don't know... but the second I own license to kill, they will be the first ones to say hello the death!!! @@ Now I seem to have no humanity left in me, lol.


Alright, wonder why I'm blogging about this phobia of mine? :D Today is my very first day being host sister of a Japanese student. I went to pick her up from the hotel, and on the way back to my house, we had a small talk. The first question she asked me was: Do you have a boyfriend? No, I don't... I said with a smiling face. Then, not knowing what to ask back, I responded "and you?" (LOL stupid question ahaha) Well, she also said no... and then I just giggled a little bit. What happened next shocked me, lol. She suddenly told me she has no interests in boys. WTF!!! There, I screamed out loud in my brain... but really, from that second on, I started to feel weird, I started to doubt if she likes girls, what if she likes me? LMAO funny thoughts, but scary indeed!!! Anyways, only 2 days left to be with her, hope everything's gonna be alright... HAHAHA

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  1. Hahahahah you know what? This afternoon I went for my haircut. I never went to that shop before but it looked inviting so I decided to give it a try. Lolz and then a transgender was sitting in one of those chairs, and I was like, "Er... where is the barber?" And then he/she said, "Me!" Lol so yeah it kinda felt weird

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    1. lol all in all, was it a good experience? haha will u give it another try? haha

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    2. or what else did he do beside cutting ur hair? HAHAHAA

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  2. HAHAHA i have to admit i like my haircut now hehe and nope he didn't do anything unprofessionally :D

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    1. awwwww... see?? this is why I dont hate all homosexual people lolz

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  3. they can be whatever they want but respect their look or sth. I mean... u won't be seeing Barney running around with the makeup or skirt. Ellen is lesbian but it's kinda normal for a girl to wear that type of dress so it's fine. Most importantly is the look. Those you said in Cambodia just want to dress up in a way that attract some kicks. So yeah, give them some of that. :D

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    1. LOL right bro.... my mood is pretty much influenced by the physical appearance as well!

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