Well, the answer is I DON'T KNOW TOO!!!
Okay, I decided to blog something a bit personal today, but it's alright... I guess? and I'll make it really short too.
Today last year at around this time (9ish night time), shit happened! IT DID! I still don't know why now, but it did. There are times I just wanna go to him and ask for the clear reasons, what went wrong, what didn't work out, why couldn't we make it the way we both had always wanted! But I have no guts to do that... maybe I'm just afraid to hear the answer or something? I don't know too, but my brain is full of the possible reasons which I've been guessing all by myself within this one year, and this is frustrating you know...
People, usually my close people, have been asking me if I have completely moved on, but really, "move on"? What is it? How does one really feel when he/she has moved on? How to know if we're totally over someone? I do think of him sometimes and of our time together... but isn't that normal? I mean, everybody has their own emotional time; of that I'm sure. Plus, it is also impossible to completely totally forget someone, right? So, are remembering and still thinking of it sometimes considered as "not moving on"? I'm sorry for having so many questions; I'm just so confused right now...
Mind letting me know what you think down below? Perhaps, it would enlighten me...
it's normal to think about it once in awhile, but if your life, your decision making is still influenced by that then u havent moved on yet. If you're no longer wish to get back together with him, then it's a good sign, though!
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Deleteso if i no longer wish to get back, that means i've finally moved on? @@
Deletethinking about someone is totally fine. Not to mention being a gf/bf once, you think about ur friends. So, again, it's fine. Hmm.. how to know if u haven't moved on? Hmm... just observe how u feel when he's around. Do u still love him as u did back then? Or ask yourself what your response would be if he approaches u and ask for another chance? If u respond "yes" then you haven't moved on yet, I guess?
ReplyDeletelol cool... interesting answers bro.. but...
Delete1. i dont we'll ever get a chance to see each other again since we both graduated lol... that means no chance to observe how i feel when he's around...
2. he hasnt approached me yet... or will never do that too, lol. it's kind of hard to imagine the scene or anticipate how i would answer though I've always committed to not getting back together.. but i dunno if i'll ever change my mind lolz
Hahahah... i was drunk last night and i barely understood what you had written up there but now that i have read and understood it, let me jump in to share a bit of an experience?
ReplyDeleteAnyways, "have i moved on?" is the question almost anyone asks himself/herself after the breakup. But you know what? I do not think moving on is even possible. From my experience, you do not have to forget sb completely to move on. Rmb the girl i loved? I dun think i ever forgot what we did together, but forgetting and moving on are two different things. I didn't forget her to move on from her. She is still sb i care for. But as time went by, the pain lessened, and suddenly after two or three years, i was ready to love again :)
LOL pain lessened or u just get used to ur pain? :| now i doubt that haha
DeleteI kinda agree with Ven there.. Yes, forgetting about someone and moving on are completely 2 different things. You don't have to forget. If you move on, even though that person is that, he won't be any constraint for u to like somebody else. But if in the condition like you said up there, then you have nothing to worry about. Whether u move on or not doesn't matter because u will never see him. U're human and u will get tired of thinking about an invisible person so just go along with the flow until u meet somebody else :)
ReplyDeletelol aight then... move on or not is no longer important haha
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